I am very comfortable with people not liking me because I won't adopt a fucked up moral compass that insists vulnerable communities do the lion share of labor in the hopes that bigots may act like decent people if we try hard enough.
That's not how interactions with me work. I'm not absorbing some random person's bullshit in the hopes we find a point we can relate.
Not being a dickhead isn't that hard. If we can't meet at the very low bar, then I don't give a shit what one has to say.