This is the last thing I'm going to say on that place:
Black people, women, trans people, and disabled people should not have to hide ourselves to avoid harassment.
If you don't want us blocking and avoiding your nazi-land en masse, if you don't want your software to be associated with nazis, come up with ways to stop the nazis from harassing us rather than crying TO US about your precious software.
Give us some confidence in your software's ability to not be abused by nazis. Duh.
It is a trend in the online world to blame people of color, trans people, women, and disabled people for pointing out how hostile your shit is to us. It's not our fault.
Don't cry to us about how the assholes ruined this for you.
Make your shit unusable for assholes. Take it out on them.
Stop your tears and put in some damn work.
"just updated your code to--"
what you NOT gon do is tell my black ass to learn to code, understand code, understand servers, and host my own allow-only instance on my own time and dime because you're to lazy to fix the shit yourself
*flips my hair and walks away*
ooo chile the foolishness
"it's not my responsibility to fix this so you're comfortable"
well then your whole instance and everything associated with you is getting blocked, simple.
don't host and admin a community if you're too lazy to... admin.
Addendum: Yes, I know, not all users. However while there remains an imbalance of interactions and information (i.e. why can I only see bits and pieces or nothing at all from them and they can raid my shit?) , no transparency, no clarity about moderation tools, and no digestible information about what the fuck this is, I'm going to continue to treat it like nazi-land. Stay pressed.
I feel like I'm fighting ghosts sometimes. Like "can yall see this shit too or????"