Some of you, usually in a privileged position in one form or another, are terrified of another's anger.

You see someone expressing frustration in a chill manner & immediately read anger. Your focus on the 'anger' instead of the issue at hand shows how little interest you actually have in 'solving the problem.'

The condescension says a lot more about you than the person you are essentially trolling.

Let me give you an example.

at a leadership workshop, we had to do various exercises. In this workshop with about 10 women, only 2 of us were BW.

In one of the exercises, I admitted that I have a lot of anger abt structural issues and politics, but that I know that it's not a bad thing and to use it for good. But when I say I was chill the whole time, never taking my anger out on any one (no reason at all to do so) ...