I know it's a shock for a lot of people on here, but the reality is a lot of the people you admire are racists.
At some point, you're going to have to grapple with that reality if you want this community to grow.
@Tdorey My suggestions are the same as Audre Lorde, James Baldwin, Angela Davis and all of the brilliant scholars that came before us.
White people need to deal with the hate from their communities. That is where the problem originates and that's where the solution has to begin.
White people need to get in the game. That's the solution.